Three years ago, after divorce, I wanted to date, very badly. I didn’t have my own life. I was mom and housewife. And all my lifestyle and everyday routines were spinning around this.
So I wanted to date. My friend, who is family phycologist, told me, “Don’t go on the Dating Sites. Don’t meet with guys. You scare them. You behave totally wild.” But I didn’t believe and failed and failed again. Every guy I met was exactly the same as the previous one. And everything ended up in the same way too.
I wanted attention, care, love. The level of self-esteem was kinda low too……
Now, three years later, looking back and thinking how stupid I behaved ……omg, those poor guys. But, now I feel totally different. I don’t need anyone and anything in my life. I’m not saying that I don’t wanna love in my life. But I’m not eager for that anymore. I’m busy with myself. I have hobbies. I have things I enjoy and my own friends.
Some guys who I met 2-3 years ago, now messaging me back. And asking for a date. But I don’t care. I respond. And even ask them how are they doing, but I don’t care. Just being polite and nice to them.
If I am bored I will message to someone and go out with him, have a good time, come home and forget. No regret. Just do whatever makes me happy. And then they feel insulted and message me again and again. But, sorry, I needed you 3 years ago. Not now.
If I’m seeing someone and something goes wrong, I won’t freak out as before, investigate, ask,…. just disappear from his radar. No explanations.
Just do whatever makes me happy.
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